It's hard to
remember names. Despite your best efforts,
strategies, and even
apps, you're going to forget. Gretchen Rubin, writing for
Psychology Today, has a good suggestion for avoiding the awkwardness that follows your lack of memory: use a compliment. For example:
"Wow, you have a terrific memory. I can't believe you remember my
name from that meeting six months ago. I can't remember the names of
people I met yesterday! So of course I have to ask you your name."
When you simply can't remember a name it's not a bad idea to be a
little apologetic and complementary. As with the example, it helps to
show you remember
something so it's clear you at least recall,
to some extent, who you're talking to. In many cases people will care
more that you actually remembered something about them rather than their
name, especially if that moment had a particular impact. When I meet
new people, I apologize for forgetting their names in advance. It's
extremely likely that I will, so I let them know ahead of time and ask
them to just slip it into the conversation whenever possible because I
want to remember them. A little bit of flattery can make your
deficiencies much less of a problem.
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